Daily Archive for April 24th, 2004

I Want to be Healthy.

I want to be healthy. I have spent much of my life NOT being healthy. It has only been since my son turned one (2000) that I began my battle towards wellness. I have been on some sort of “diet” since before junior high school. I was very active in high school (including sports such as volleyball, cheerleading, and summer swim club), but I have always been a little heavier.

Then pregnancy. I gained over 50 pounds with my first. I thought 40 of it would melt off in the first few weeks. Nope. 25 went pretty quick, then another 10. It took a full year to get back to my already heavy pre-pregnancy weight.

Today I am 15 pounds under where I was at my son’s first birthday - and almost 3 dress sizes smaller. I even gained 50 pounds with my daughter (born in 2002). I am happy with how far I’ve come, but I would like to lose about 10 more pounds or 1 more dress size:)

How has it happened for me? The big difference for me has been exercise - and a goal. In October 2000 I started swimming (I competed in a summer club for many summers of my childhood and youth). So swimming was a natural first step for me. In April 2001 I started walking with a friend. That June I got a bike and began riding. I worked up to running short dinstances that month too. In August I worked up to being able to run 3 full miles, and I accomplished a goal that has changed my health and life - I completed a sprint triathlon. Completing the Danskin Triathlon was the goal I had set. I needed a reason to get up at 5 a.m. several mornings a week. Plus, I had some good friends who watched my son while I swam sometimes too (thanks Marissa & Jenn). And I could not have done it without the full support of my wonderful husband - he was flexible so I could get in my long bike rides and runs. He took on more kid duty:) Thanks honey.

My dear friend Sara started it. I watched her from the sidelines in 1999 while I nursed my son. I saw so many women of varied ages and sizes, even breast cancer survivors! How inspiring! I knew I could do it too. Their saying is “The woman who starts the race is not the same woman who finishes the race.” It is so true. I encourage all women to try the Danskin. You won’t be disappointed.

I still struggle with weight, with choosing the right foods, etc… but I have hope now. I don’t follow anyone’s program, nor have I eliminated carbs, nor do I drink my lunch:) This is an interesting jouney. I’ve “kept it off” for a year now, that’s pretty good for me. Now, how do I get rid of this last 10???

Projects to Keep “Em Busy

I am on a mission. Joel has been having a hard time focusing on independent projects at preschool. I want to try give him “tools” to help him choose a project and focus for a time. I think I have caused this problem, in part, because I have allowed him to watch more TV that usual lately. This is no excuse, but it has been so busy TV has made things easier for the moment. It’s the long run that tends to sneak up behind me!

So… it is time for me to invest more energy into time with my kiddos than time other tasks (uh-oh, I might just have to say “no” to some people!) I thumbed through some magazines and spent some time thinking of ideas to use. I need ideas that don’t require much “mom resource” and some that will. I need things that will build a sense of self-confidence, so tasks that don’t need much direction from Mom. I need ideas that will help the kids develop a sense of others - giving and thinking about things other people appreciate. I’d like to not to have to spend a bunch of money too. The following is the list of ideas I thought of or found that may interest my kids:

*Use cardboard box and draw a road for matchbox cars.
*Make cards for friends/family/missionaries. This will help kids think of others.
*Have a tea party.
*Clean room, make it a game by seeing how much can be done in the length of one song (my husband’s idea!)
*Bake/cook - pudding, popscicles, icing on graham crackers. Anything that let’s the child accomplish most of task on own.
*Make ribbons out of paper, or whatever. Award a friend or parent for something special that was noticed!
*Workshheet. There are so many online preschool sites. Joel actually loves to do these while I cook dinner sometimes.
*Read or look at a book.
*Do a puzzle.
*Call a friend or family member.
*Draw. Usborne Books has some great books that show kids how to draw simple animals, etc…
*Cut and glue foam sheets to make all sorts of stuff!
*Pick up pine cones, trash, outside toys…
*Board games. My son’s favorite is Cariboo. He prefers to play with someone, but it’s a game that a child can play on his own as well — educational too!
*Do exercises!
*Paint rocks, we have lots in our yard. Since the weather is getting nice, this is something where the mess can stay outside!
*Bubbles, bubbles, bubbles!
*Paint butcher paper and make a special table cloth for that evening’s dinner.
*Make a card or gift to take to someone at the retirement home.
*Glue, glitter, rice, sand - yikes!

The following are ideas I found in different Martha Steward Kids’ magazines:

*Paint rocks, we have lots in our yard. Since the weather is getting nice, this is something where the mess can stay outside! (MSK Summer ‘02, p.101)
*Button in a cup game (MSK Winter ‘04, p.21)
*Make placemats with outlines of utensils and plates to teach child how to set a table (MSK Winter ‘04, p.21)
*Clothespin animals (MSK Winter ‘04, p.21)
*Sunprints (MSK Summer ‘02, p.23)
*Paper airplanes (MSK Summer ‘02, p.51)
*Make instruments (MSK Summer \’02, p.125)
*Melt crayons (MSK Fall “02 p.28)
*Message board (MSK FAll ‘02 p. 40)

Since we are so close to summer (no preschool) I think I will be thankful to have some of these ideas to reference.